Ah, finally Azhan’s wedding is over! Thank god things went smoothly. It was a simple but nice wedding at Ambassy Hall Holiday Villa. Mom should consider wedding planner as her part time job. She did a terrific job for Azhans wedding. Better hope that enthusiasm will last till Kak Yuha’s wedding. She planned everything from A to Z by herself starting from 6 months before. I am now convinced that we can’t rely on people that we are close to (define close anyway).

Define close.

You’re close if you visit your mom once a year (or twice a year) for birthday celebration and mother’s day?.Or you visit your mother everyday (or every week) and buy food from the market to replenish the empty fridge?. 

You’re close if you  meet someone for a birthday party. Or you’re close if u drop by at someone’s house if you happen to pass by. (Or visit them at the hospital when they’re sick when your house is only 5 minutes to the hospital).

Note: These are just few MILD ‘random’ examples. 

See. If you think you’re close to us just by few superficial hugs and kisses. Mwah here and Mwah there. BY asking how are you and thats it. Think again. If the jobs need to get done and you run. We’re not close.

Jokingly said “elelele etiquette konon” when someone asked you where’s your etiquette over who’s gonna scoop the rice into someone’s place is rude???. Really? .. Seriously?.. 

Thats not rude. THIS IS RUDE….

• If the jobs are being done 85% by someone ELSE and you want to make a check list of everything, when you don’t even bother to HELP, or OFFER your help for the past few months, now thats plain classic example of rudeness!. My god. Where’s your brain?.
• Another example of classic rudeness is by saying I don’t believe in all this fancy fancy things (lets say for example a portrait of 2 months work) in front, opps not infront, TO THE ARTIST who did it, on his face.
• Yet another example of classic rudeness is by saying ‘I dont believe in all this marriage marriage thing’ in front of someone who is getting married in a few months, on her engagement day. 
• And the list goes on. 

This wedding is an eye opener, like I said before. See, its like this people. Me and my siblings are not kids anymore. We know what is right and what is wrong. WHO is right and WHO is wrong. And we certainly will not take any crap especially if the crap is towards our family. You know what I mean. 

GosH. What a bunch of hypocrites!